This is the truth, or so it seems I was saying less eloquently the other day. Babu and I have been working through some pretty profound communication issues. I suppose 15 years later is never too late when you have the the rest of your life to figure it out. Relationships are hard Lovies, it really does take work and being truly you in your communication of your needs. I’ve always wanted a partner who sharpened me and I thought I had one once. I am absolutely certain I will have one again.
Fearlessly be yourself; life, love, and God / the universe will take you where you are meant to go. Try not to miss the journey, it lives in the moment to moment.
That uncomfortable feeling inside you; the one holding you back, censoring you, degrading your confidence. It’s a liar, it doesn’t know any better. AWOL nation said it best, Never let your fear decide your fate! Face and conquer your fear.
Oh Lovies, so many of you are battling so much right now. I wish I could make it happen faster for you, this awful wonderful journey you are on, but you have to go at your own pace. I’ve been there and I will never forget how much it sucked at the time. Some days I wondered where I’d get the motivation to keep moving forward without breaking. So here’s some, there will always be people out there who want to see you fail so they can feel better about themselves. Raise your head up gorgeous and go show them who the head bitch is, it’s you!
This is the truth: There will be times in your life when just the Big Girl Panties ( Big Boy Boxers) aren’t going to cut it.
Some battles are too important. Any battle for YOURSELF, is the MOST important.
Find those Sparkly BGP, as Righteous Momma described them the other day, and learn to love and fearlessly be you!
Happy Monday Lovies!
PS- I just HAD to….
This is the truth, every day you choose to build it, leave it to its own devices or tear it down.
Choose to build it Lovies. it is time well spent and you deserve it.
This is the truth. I have lived this and learned it the hard way. Although I would reorder the words to say what you face and accept. Often acceptance cannot come until the facing has begun. Sometimes I think we even pass off ignoring and denying as acceptance to ourselves and others. I will tell you this, your heart knows the difference and it isn’t going to let you be until you get there. It is never as hard as you think either, so go for it. Do the work to live your best life, you deserve it.