Chemistry+Timing+Work =LOVE

Down for the work! 

Learning to let it go

I’m adding the words they and them for myself this year. Working to give more energy to activities and relationships that matter and leave time wasting, chaos causing habits and drama filled relationships behind. You don’t have to be all burn the bridge about it either. Baby steps of turning toward the “right” things and removing your efforts and energy from the rest will surely send the message Lovies. Enjoy your journey and spend your precious time where it matters and makes a difference


This is the truth: Love


It’s plain and simple, figure it out before it is too late and no one cares about your walls anymore, you will be alone, just as you always feared.

Some people are a self fulfilling prophecy, I am not one of them. I love well and I’m not afraid of being alone.

That is freedom Lovies

This is the Truth: Stay Strong



This is the truth:  You know who you are, what you stand for, where your heart and intents lie. Don’t allow anyone else to define you for you or convince you  something opposed to the truth you know inside yourself. So what if they can’t, don’t, won’t see it. Stop wasting time trying to make them see something they couldn’t comprehend to begin with, YOU know it’s there and that Lovies, is all that matters. Put it out there as best you know how and screw the haters, they are everywhere and they WANT  to derail you so they can feel better about their own evil, pitiful, shameful, pathetic, ugly selves.  Give them empathy  and a knowing smile of understanding because we all have moments of hate, evil, ugliness, and shame.  Some just choose to live and wallow there versus working their asses off to find a better way to love themselves or learning to throw up their arms and shout  “Let it go!”    Stay strong, proud and smiling.  You are worth it, you can do it and you are strong! Don’t let anyone strip it from you or give it away to the haters.

Happy Friday! ❤



This is the truth: Soul Mates


This is the truth, or so it seems I was saying less eloquently the other day. Babu and I have been working through some pretty profound communication issues. I suppose 15 years later is never too late when you have the the rest of your life to figure it out. Relationships are hard Lovies, it really does take work and being truly you in your communication of your needs. I’ve always wanted a partner who sharpened me and I thought I had one once. I am absolutely certain I will have one again.

Fearlessly be yourself; life, love, and God / the universe will take you where you are meant to go. Try not to miss the journey, it lives in the moment to moment.